Comments on: Slice Me Nice

By: CoLLiN

CoLLiN — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 09:30:43 +0000

Member of not important is here thats me, feeling the same as you. But not apply to your best fren, they’ll sad to hear that.

By: Eri Peng

Eri Peng — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 10:12:40 +0000

wth… dahsyat meh??

By: Adrian Teh

Adrian Teh — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 09:27:12 +0000

reflection yang dahsyat…

By: Johnny Tai

Johnny Tai — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 07:12:49 +0000

Ahaha…ok, how I know le…u said define mar >D

Yeah, now I understand…it is frustrating. I guess the only way to find out is to show it. Yeah, it depends on how u interpret =).

Np, always willing and glad to read your blog.

By: Eri Peng

Eri Peng — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:58:43 +0000

happy niu year to you too, ben.

By: Eri Peng

Eri Peng — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:52:44 +0000

by the way, i’m not really asking for the defination of Important.

Of course, i know what it mean, literally, from the dictionary.com or wherever that comes out with explaination.. but what i really meant what, the ambiguity of words.. nowdays, almost everything is very subjective, they have no specific meaning behind. well. depends on how you interpret it la, kan?

thats why its just so.. urgh!

get what i mean?? lol, maybe not, because the things that i wanted to explain are all beyond words…

haha, thanks john. i appreciate that you took your time to read and reply here. thanks again

By: Johnny Tai

Johnny Tai — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:36:12 +0000

woo…sorry for the long message >.<

By: Johnny Tai

Johnny Tai — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:35:30 +0000

Haha..Yes, I agree with you. Words are not meant to be read only but must also be understood and not being translated as a different meaning. Like F*** , there’s a real meaning to it and what is used for instead of a curse word…some old fart must have made it that way(info shall be learn by oneself >D). I’m not a genius or a smart guy to begin with. I just know what is what, what’s suppose to be and what is not ( but ofcourse I don’t know all things la), because I take time to understand it thoroughly so that I won’t get a different perception.

Definition for Important is that it’s valuable for the person, something that it’s needed in their life (in terms of object, not a living being)For human, the definition is the same just that you would be someone that others will remember u always, who will call for u when they need you and someone that they treasure the most. Why? Because you have alot of good value or something unique about you that makes u someone important to them.You helped them so much they will remember your good heart and kindness.Maybe You’ve done something that have really impacted their lives or your beautiful pretty looks dazzled them till they are mesmerized (some guys are like this and may ‘sometimes’ jump to conclusion that you’re their precious girl…in their mind).Usually the best friend is known as an important person to another friend. Parents will always think of their children as something important in their life, we will understand that…well, later la.

The Not ‘so’ (why got ‘so’ wan?>D) important is something that it’s not really the top most priority, not something that’s needed at the moment (again…for objects, and not for living being). For human definition, someone they don’t think about everyday because eventually they’ll see you again (like everyday) and depending on the relationship you have with that person whether it’s strong or weak. A not so important person would probably won’t get invites or called for events or yum cha session. Or like in a group, a not so important person doesn’t get much of the attention from friends as some may feel you’re just tagging along because it’s a group, one big gang go hang kai!. The feeling is like you’ve been benched (sports for being replace and take a sit from the game) or been put to the side.

(FYI, I’m not a psychiatrist nor do I have any experience in counseling >D)

But what I really think is that all of us are of both.We’re surrounded by different kinds of people with different mindset. But what we can do is to make them realize (or try la) that you are someone important…not the opposite. Let them decide as to how they think about you.

By: ben

ben — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 05:28:31 +0000

happy niu yr eri

By: Eri Peng

Eri Peng — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 02:50:53 +0000

thanks for your message.

by the way, how do you define important and not so important?

hahahah… does it really has a meaning behind it or nothing at all?? thats what i’ve been thinking.. it has become nothing and meaningless to words.. any words.. they are just words if we don’t take them seriously.. no?

hahaha